We love this advice from @imissedmepodcas She helps define what it is that keeps you longer than you know you should. She advises that you figure out what they are giving you and then fill that in for yourself.
“The only way of truly letting someone go is to first acknowledge and accept that you’re attached. But then understand the reason why you’re attached. What is that person giving you or providing that you will miss once they are gone?
“Whether it’s love or acceptance or respect or validation – whatever it is, if you’re struggling to let it go, it’s because you don’t have it within yourself, and there will be a lack of it once they’re gone. And then you realize that it’s not the person that you will miss. It’s the feeling.
“And if you work on you and you work on that lack of love or acceptance or validation, you will realize that the purpose of the person in your life was to make you realize those things. And come back to yourself and grow.”
Watch here: https://www.tiktok.com/@imissedmepodcast/video/7237927259183516970?_r=1&_t=8jrc8Xel80N
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